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[aid] => mick
[title] => Be Nice
[time] => 2015-06-17 21:57:06
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[bodytext] => I try to be nice because I know it's good to be kind to others but I also know that being too kind can also mean getting hurt like when you spend your life holding doors open for people so often that one day when you walk through a doorway you think that they will do the same for you but the door hits you in the face with the cold reality that you not matter how hard you tried not to be have become a pushover and or a welcome mat that people don't think twice before they step on or over leaving their footprints on you So yes I agree that it's good to be nice but we shouldn't let niceness become intertwined with things such as naivety or submissiveness Be the person that other people can always lean on if need but make sure that your own shoulders can support your weight and that if given the chance the other person would be completely willing to do the same Always be nice but never forget that being kind to yourself matters too [comments] => 2 [counter] => 153 [topic] => 43 [informant] => Lydthon15 [notes] => [ihome] => 0 [alanguage] => english [acomm] => 0 [haspoll] => 0 [pollID] => 0 [score] => 0 [ratings] => 0 [editpoem] => 1 [associated] => [topicname] => oops )
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